Discovering Your Purpose
The single most important element of your identity is to discover your ultimate purpose in life. It will fulfil the search for meaning in life in everyone’s hearts.
The single most important element of your identity is to discover your ultimate purpose in life. It will fulfil the search for meaning in life in everyone’s hearts.
No matter how old are you, research has shown that discovering
purpose in life would bring happiness, satisfaction and most importantly it
would give us a focus in life.
It is also proven that a strong sense of direction in life
increases life expectancy as much as seven years!
So, the million dollar question here is, how?
Experimentation
Throw yourself into situations which are out of your comfort zone and
try out various activities that interest you! You could crash on other people’s
couches, jump across swamps or sky diving!
Some examples which are less extreme and more realistic include
participating in various clubs, volunteering opportunities or even
competitions.
Trying out these activities may provoke anxiety in you, but it
would bring you the adrenaline rush which makes you feel alive again! So, set
aside a few hours or eve one day to try out something new every week. For
example, you can try rock climbing or even watch plays which you never watched
before.
Reflection
Set aside some time to think and write about yourself daily, preferably
in a journal. This will help you think clearer and manage your emotions better.
The collective benefits of writing and reflecting are
well-documented. It helps us to be more conscious of the things we do every day
which helps ourselves to discover our strengths, weaknesses and habits. It is
even integrated in some psychotherapy practices. It helps you to make sense of
what you are going through and can be very therapeutic!
If you do not have the time to keep up with lengthy journal
entries, you can spend five minutes before bedtime to write a short daily
reflection or you could note down one fascinating observation you had during
the day.
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